By Theresa Anthony, author I am not a fan of change. I actually like living life in a well-worn rut because I like knowing what to expect each day. Boring, yes maybe, but in my post-loss world the main goal has been to control my anxiety levels. That’s all well and good when life is perfectly predictable, until it isn’t. A few months ago, an unforeseen career setback forced me to [gasp] make a change in my perspective, and my life. Eleven years ago, about a year after losing